In every healthy relationship, communication and honesty are very crucial, though it is about trust, they’re also about some worst lies. Lots and lots of worst lies. Being close with someone means sharing and caring along with hiding and lying. In all long-term relationships, both partners finally turn out to become master manipulators, top-notch detectives, and brilliant liars. People lie because the truth can hurt and also because they care. Those who think their relationship isn’t standing on a foundation of millions of tiny, little lies, then they’re just lying to themselves.
The person who thinks that their relationship isn’t standing on a foundation of millions of tiny, little lies, then they’re just lying to themselves.
We bring you some of the worst lies people tell in relationships with each other.
1. What a weekend!
When you’re partner spends the Saturday pretending he actually enjoyed the shopping, then you pretend all Sunday that you love football when you give a shit about the game, pretending is one of the worst lies.
2. I am almost ready!
Women tell this quite often when they get ready for an outing or a party. They feel they don’t need to get into details of how long the hair takes, the bra or the panties didn’t match, the lipstick or make-up was not satisfactory, she had to run to the toilet.
3. There was nothing much!
In the past, whether they were engaged, living together or just had amazing $3x, none of that needs to be informed to the current partner. So, an attitude that there was nothing much in that relationship is the worst lie to cut a long story short.
4. I was very busy…
There seems no need to share that it was a work dinner with a hot client or coffee with a handsome co-worker, the worst lies you can absolutely say is I was very busy at the office.
5. No, never!
How many of your friends you’ve hooked up with, when you were drunk, sober or a quickie, what they don’t know won’t hurt them, and what they do will just make them hate your friends, so the lies that bring peace is to deny and no need to admit, either.
6. You’re so big!
He may not be the biggest, but right here, right now, he is. He’s the only guy you’re with, so he’s the only one you’re comparing him to, even if you’ve seen bigger than his. Keep the man happy by telling this worst lie. What’s the problem?
7. Your friends are Ok!
Whether you think her best friend is actually really hot or his best friend is a total douchebag, you’ll never let out the truth. Even not saying is the worst lie in itself.
8. Your the hottest!
Even if your exes looked like Jennifer Lopez or had a built like Tom Brady. This is the worst lie you will tell, ‘your hot!’ to the one you adore right now.
9. I’m doing my workouts!
How much you actually work out, your partner doesn’t need to know when you say you’re going to the gym you’re really just eating donuts on your treadmill on speed level 3.
10. You smell nice!
There was a shortage of water and a shower was not possible, so you just perfume yourself inside outside, and when your partner says you smell nice, you in return say ‘thank you’ and blush is one of the worst lies commonly told in a relationship.