In every healthy relationship, communication and honesty are very crucial, though it is about trust, they’re also about some worst lies. Lots and lots of worst lies. Being close with someone means sharing and caring along with hiding and lying. In all long-term relationships, both partners finally turn out to become master manipulators, top-notch detectives, and brilliant liars. People lie because the truth can hurt and also because they care. Those who think their relationship isn’t standing on a foundation of millions of tiny, little lies, then they’re just lying to themselves.
The person who thinks that their relationship isn’t standing on a foundation of millions of tiny, little lies, then they’re just lying to themselves. Keep reading till last to know some of the worst lies which are often used in a relationship.
We bring you some of the worst lies people tell in relationships with each other.
1. What a weekend!
When you’re partner spends the Saturday pretending he actually enjoyed the shopping, then you pretend all Sunday that you love football when you give a shit about the game, pretending is one of the worst lies.
2. I am almost ready!
Women tell this quite often when they get ready for an outing or a party. They feel they don’t need to get into details of how long the hair takes, the bra or the panties didn’t match, the lipstick or make-up was not satisfactory, she had to run to the toilet.
3. There was nothing much!
In the past, whether they were engaged, living together or just had amazing $3x, none of that needs to be informed to the current partner. So, an attitude that there was nothing much in that relationship is the worst lie to cut a long story short.
4. I was very busy…
There seems no need to share that it was a work dinner with a hot client or coffee with a handsome co-worker, the worst lies you can absolutely say is I was very busy at the office.
5. No, never!
How many of your friends you’ve hooked up with, when you were drunk, sober or a quickie, what they don’t know won’t hurt them, and what they do will just make them hate your friends, so the lies that bring peace is to deny and no need to admit, either.
6. You’re so big!
He may not be the biggest, but right here, right now, he is. He’s the only guy you’re with, so he’s the only one you’re comparing him to, even if you’ve seen bigger than his. Keep the man happy by telling this worst lie. What’s the problem?
7. Your friends are Ok!
Whether you think her best friend is actually really hot or his best friend is a total douchebag, you’ll never let out the truth. Even not saying is the worst lie in itself.
8. You are the hottest!
Even if your exes looked like Jennifer Lopez or had a built like Tom Brady. This is the worst lie you will tell, ‘your hot!’ to the one you adore right now.
9. I’m doing my workouts!
How much you actually work out, your partner doesn’t need to know when you say you’re going to the gym you’re really just eating donuts on your treadmill on speed level 3.
10. You smell nice!
There was a shortage of water and a shower was not possible, so you just perfume yourself inside outside, and when your partner says you smell nice, you in return say ‘thank you’ and blush is one of the worst lies commonly told in a relationship.
11. You are not fat!
It is one of the worst lies commonly used in a relationship. When you know that your partner has gained weight and is now conscious of their looks. Then this lie works as a savior and also helps to boost their confidence.
12. The Food is delicious!
Common you know how much you don’t like your partner’s cooking? Yet you gave a very happy and wow reaction to it. This is one of those worst lies people use in a relationship for their partner who doesn’t know cooking. This will motivate them and cook better next time.
13. I always think of you!
It is logically impossible to think about someone every day, every hour, and every minute. But if our partners love to hear that then why not?
14. Didn’t spend much!
You buy your partner’s favorite gift whether it be a diamond ring or his limited edition shoes or watch. And they reply: What is the need to spend so much?” All you say is I didn’t spend much, it is the intention and not the price tag. However, the truth is you are seriously affected by the money you spent on that expensive gift.
15. I wasn’t checking out!
Even if you have a bomb-hot girlfriend or super handsome boyfriend, let’s admit we all check out others. But if you get caught while checking out this is the lie that will save you.
16. I am with my friends
This is the most common excuse used by couples. It is helpful when you have done something wrong and don’t want to face your partner. You can simply say that your friend is going through a rough phase and you’re with him.
17. I like your family
Imagine dating a person for more than 5 years and you still don’t like his/her parents. But you can not say directly to your partner because after all, THEY ARE PARENTS… So you use this lie to protect your peace.
18. It was just one drink!
Well, you know it wasn’t just one. Sometimes we lie saying I’m not drunk to save ourselves from unplanned problems.
19.I am saving to wear it for a special event!
When you didn’t like the present he got it for you. But don’t want to hurt him either by saying so. Then this is lie saves you in a relationship.
20. I am Listening
It is the worst lie couple uses in a relationship. Even if he is busy scrolling his social media and you are telling him all office gossip. He will always say that he is but actually, he is not.
21. I don’t talk to my ex
This point increased the list, but this is one of the worst lies we all said in a relationship. You’re probably wondering if it’s okay to be friends with an old flame. Well, it’s totally fine! In fact, it’s a great opportunity to prove that you’ve grown up and matured enough to handle yourself in a healthy relationship. Plus, it’ll make your ex jealous, which is always fun. Just remember to keep things lighthearted and casual. Don’t let it get too serious.
Tell us through comments section what worst lies you have used in a relationship.